Love - Miracle or Devil's Work?

Love is something that is unexplainable?

A person claimed that he like her for her kindness blah blah blah..... I'm sure most of you are giving modest answers.. Why you like someone? Is it because you find him/her cute? or they have a stable income and he/she can be rely upon? or they can sweet talks to you? I wish there people who will be brave enough to say " i like him/her of their looks or they are well off..So most people said that he /she is a good person so love them. Then please explain why so many men and women having " affairs"? They may be good husband/wife, but they may not be good lovers..women have affairs becos their husband are "woodhead" in terms of love and sex.. men have affairs becos their wife are frigid or not interested . Ok although this happens after marriage, then in the first place your love is not even there. am i right or wrong to say that?

as for why men & women are having affairs; i guess many just want the excitement... to those people whom are having affair, its not that love is not there anymore.... but i find that this action is just an excuse to avoid from the problems they are having presently. sometimes i feel that they din't attempt hard enuff to solve the current problem. thats why choose to escape or avoid it thus think of the alternative and cos its so available.

Anyway, sucks why am i still harbouring this feelings of hatred eventhough i should have forgotten long time ago. Fuck Me!!!!!!!!!!